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Hey pretty mommies and their amazing kids, today I Navya, proud mother of Vihana want to share my journey from being a girl to the mother of a wonderful kid.
Basically, I want to pen down how I felt on this journey.
Abinitio I would like to start from the beginning that is MY MARRIAGE PHASE where I got married to the love of my life MR. AJAY and everything were merry-making for me from the day I met him and he gave me the best gift of my life in form of a daughter.
You know I got married at a very tender age because I was in love with my husband, he used to take care of me, love me, and understand me.
Even today also his love is increasing day by day. He is a mature man and I’m a girl with a little heart and a free spirit. And when I got married some responsibilities came as they always will, I always tried to fulfill my duties but being so young Times I used to feed up, and in some way or other, I manage myself. I was having lots and lots of work to do. Ie – studies, household work and taking care of a joint family, and providing all the things which are required on top of fulfilling my dreams. So all in one I was having a lot on my plate and there in between everybody wanted that I should do my family planning now. But I wasn’t ready at first because I and my parents wanted that I must complete my education first which was totally the right thing parents always think right for their kids so were my parents doing by guiding me.
I am crossing my heart by saying through I was from a middle-class family but my parents always treated me like a princess. They used to do all my work but as I was eager to do married to the man I love, I very happily came to my in-law’s house, but honestly this, happy life came with lots of work, and this doesn’t mean I am not happy here or they don’t love me that’s not. My mother-in-law loves me like as if I am her real daughter.
But honestly, after marriage, I was stuck with various responsibilities. I still remember the day of my marriage, obviously, it was all good but my father advised that- ” beta now are married here, so give your best here and treat them as your family “.
But I couldn’t manage my studies, family, and responsibilities together so I told my mom that I want to quit my studies, after listening to this my mother started crying and told me so many things especially this, that you are studying, it’s our dream in your means – we are fulfilling our dreams by you moreover if you will be educated only then your coming child will be educated also if you all be educated only then you can give a good life to your kids, I decided that I will strive hard to fulfill my parents dream.
So everything I was doing, doing in full swings but again became bumpy because everybody again starting asking me-
“When will you have a child”?
“Why aren’t you doing family planning yet”?
“So and so questions like this? ”
You know the main reason for not having planned for a child was that I was also not mature enough to take responsibility of a child at that moment. But some handful of people were r continuously intruding in my space and showed tantrums and on top of that their started judging me that “I am rude” and” I don’t own the quality to be a mom “.
I was pissed off at that moment and I wanted to scary and it was hurting I know from bottom of my heart. I always want to have child but at correct time so that I can give child everything- love, time, care and many more things that my child deserves, not because to have child under pressure. So with all this my two years completed and I completed my graduation with high distinction for that day. I was waiting and I saw satisfaction and proud in my parents eyes. So all nonsense opinion and tantrums of handful people and wait was really worth it.